Asylum for parents of disabled child Form 2014-2023

By answering this question Iu2019m gonna assume your between the age of 18u201325?I believe there is stigma in America for moving out at 18. False.You should move out of your parents house when you feel ready to move out.But thatu2019s the tough part.When you feel ready doesnu2019t mean waiting till 36 and feeling like now is the good time. Feeling ready is when you have some-what of a stable income and can prfor yourself (for the most part).Moving out when you feel ready does not mean leaving when you have a long period of feeling comfortable. I suggest leaving home the moment before you begin getting too comfortable.I personally believe the sooner you can financially leave the better for two particular reasons:Youu2019ll learn to become more independent.Youu2019ll taste the real-world and be consumed by daily challenges.My kids technically moved out at age 17/18 for college, but they moved back in after school and stayed still they were between 22 to 26 (I have 5 kids).My husband and I didnu2019t put any pressure on them, but we made sure they found a job, and started saving some sort of income so that when they were ready to move on, theyu2019d be able to.BUTu2026If your not going to college and simply want to u201cgrindu201d and work 24/7, you get a long with your parents, and you donu2019t feel restricted living at home, then by all means, stay at home till when ever.Youu2019ll save a TON of money that you could be spending on more important things, like your first house!Once you have a sufficient amount of income saved, rent an apartment. This could be at age 23 or even 27. It all depends on the situation.

Current Italian laws are extremely restrictive. Think about zero rights for your child, beyond something very, very basic.As asylum seeker, you have no warranty to stay. Having a child now would be too much suspicious.

There are no specific forms for that and the courts will not be involved in adjudicating fights between parents over a two week holiday. This is not something you just send in to get a stamp. There would be a hearing and a full court case. This will be a very expensive holiday!I suggest you contact a lawyer if you want to pursue this, or go somewhere else for your holiday.

This answer is coming from a single parent, a Mom who never received one dime of child support, because my ex told his lawyer, u201cHow do I know my money is being spent on my child and not on her?u201dI was a single Mother, working and raising my daughter alone. My boyfriend, walked out on us 9 months after she was born. He never wanted kids and still acted like a teenage boy, who wanted to screw anything in a skirt.I took him to court and he was forced to pay $300/month. He immediately quit his job and moved away. I found out later, that he had a new girlfriend and worked at a night-club for cash only.Again, I went after him for non-payment and my lawyer contacted his employer and he was fired. So he simply got another part-time job painting houses, where he insisted on being paid in cash. After awhile, I simply gave up and he was free to live his life.I realize that most people try to defend their point of, u201cwhy should I have to pay child support?u201d Also, there are several postings which I agree with, however the sad truth is that MOST dead-beat parents are men, and these men feel they shouldnu2019t have to pay.But, it takes two-to-tango - so stop blaming the wives and girlfriends for getting pregnant. Raising a child alone costs a lot of money!Rent $$$Utilities $$$Food $$$Reliable Car & gas for that vehicle & Insurance $$$Entertainment $$$School supplies $$$Clothing $$$I was able to find a good-paying job, a low-rent complex, where I rented a very nice townhouse, I bought a reliable used car and I had the support of my family. I am (most definitely) not a bad parent, I worked and raised my child, and I stayed home on Saturday nights, while my friends were out having fun and I was and still am a good Mother.My dead-beat boyfriend never paid me a dime of child support. I also found out that he has (6) children with (6) different women. Note ( he told me he never liked wearing a condom?) So, I guess I feel bad for those other women who thought they could change him, and I know that heu2019s not paid them either.Sorry men, but if you chose you have sex, then you need to PAY !

What is the other choice?There is no other choice.How much sacrifice does it take to care for a disabled child?That all depends. What kind of disability does the child have? What are his or her needs? How much is the child responding to therapy?Do the parents have any trouble with depression or anxiety? That can make a difference too. A person with a tendency to depression or anxiety could have a tough time taking care of a disabled child. If thatu2019s the case, parents have to somehow find the time to take very good care of themselves, too, despite being very busy trying to care for the disabled child, possibly other children, a job, ageing parentsu2026it ainu2019t easy.But most parents, despite all the effort they must exert, are not just proud of themselves, they are proud of their child.Even though almost every parent gets some feeling of loss and sadness, and guilt, too, if their child struggles in life, there are still moments of triumph and pride, often with the u2018little things,u2023 such as the child learns a new skill or benefits from a wonderful new program or therapy.Some have complex medical needs, like my friendu2019s son who was fed through a feeding tube many times a day and had to be watched constantly in case he choked. He had very severe physical disability as well as intellectual disability. But he was always a very good-natured, pleasant person from a very early age, very affectionate, always with that ready smile for mom, dad, siblings.My other friendu2019s son had very severe autism. Because of sensory problems he felt very uncomfortable with hugs, and he tended to look away from people rather than make eye contact. He could not talk or communicate much at all. Sometimes his mom would say, u201cI wish he could say, u2018I love you mom,u2023 just once.u201d At those times she sounded very sad, but she would invariably pick herself up and go on to u2018just put one foot in front of the other,u2023 as sheu2019d say.She was very often dealing with depression and saw a therapist to talk about it. He was actually not physically disabled at all, in fact he could run very fast, and if he got out a door he was very strong and you couldnu2019t stop him, and he would just run - right into the street, say. So he also needed constant care but of a very different type. When he turned 21 he had to go live in a residential facility with a tall fence around it to prevent him from running into the street. He didnu2019t understand hazards like fast-moving cars. The facility had some taller, strong adults who could gently restrain him, as well as double doors to prevent him from getting out to the street.And even she was extremely upset when her son went to live at the residential facility. She visited several times a week and would raise hell if she found a bruise on her son. She watched everything like a hawk and was very protective of him.She had a bond with him that just defied anything anyone could imagine. Though he could not communicate much at all, she understood what he wanted and could almost always calm him if he got upset. If she couldnu2019t understand what he wanted, she would work at it til she could figure it out.You use the term, u2018mentally disabled childrenu2023 - Iu2019m not sure what you mean by that - but maybe you are referring to developmental disorders like Autism, Intellectual Disability, or perhaps you are referring to mental illnesses, Iu2019m not sure.But in any case most of the parents I meet who have children with any sort of mental disability, do not regret having their child or taking care of their child.They are often frustrated at a system that provides them with very little help, and at health insurance bureaucrats who deny them coverage. They are often frustrated with school officials, too, who seem to do everything they can to weasel out of providing even a minimum education to their child. And they often have financial pressures or disagreements between husband and wife about which school to choose, which type of therapy is best, and so on.Especially if a child is very severely disabled, paying for their care and providing for them after the parents are gone, keeping that child safe and protected from people who would take advantage of him or her, can cause a parent a lot of worry.Itu2019s also very difficult for most moms to keep a u2018balanceu2023 in their life if their child has a serious disability. They feel they need to be u2018super momu2023 and be working hard every minute to help themselves. In my experience, the moms who can take a little time for themselves, have far less stress and worry. Finances are a big factor. Hiring respite care today and getting some time for yourself are often luxuries only the rich can afford.But the kids? No. I have met very, very few parents who would try to get rid of their child or not take responsibility for him or her.

Your question is a good one. Although Iu2019m not in the life and health insurance field, Iu2019m not aware of a policy that provides the coverage that you suggest.As I think about this and after having written the answer below, isnu2019t this mostly covered by health insurance? Complications of delivery and birth are covered under your policy. And once the baby is born, the baby is a dependent on your policy.The easy answer to why you canu2019t buy it is because it doesnu2019t exist. No snark intended! There are lots of exposures (technical term for things that cause losses) that donu2019t have insurance policies at present.As a matter of fact, the speed at which new products (drones, 3D printing, self driving cars) and businesses are being developed and launched means that this challenge is certainly going to become more prevalent.A different question would be whether or not an insurance contract could be developed to cover the risk of the birth of a disabled child.There are some characteristics that could interest an insurance company: Lots of baby births, reasonably accurate statistics on low probabilities of births of children with birth defects etc.There are also some characteristics that are negative. The likely purchasers would be couples and individual expecting a child, leading to premium payments for a short period of time during the pregnancy.The losses could be extremely costly, and extend for a long period of time. A child with severe issues might have medical costs of $ 10, $50 or $ 100 thousand per year.Frankly, the risks probably outweigh the rewards, which means that a private (aka normal) insurer wouldnu2019t want to create a policy. But like flood insurance, perhaps the government might get involved and create a policy, perhaps as part of a universal health care system.In that model, I could see every policyholder paying a nominal amount e.g. $ 5 per month and coverage being universal for any child born with disabilities.Thanks for the A2A.

How do they manage to love the child? Usually they loved the child even before birth and before they know the child has any problems. The real question is how some people can stop loving a child just because he or she is ill.Make no mistake, there are many people who can manage to not love even a gifted child who has no significant faults. When parents fail to bond with a severely disabled child, I believe it is sometimes because they are trying to reduce the pain of losing the child, or watching it struggle.Really, whether they love a child almost always has more to do with the kind of people they are than anything related to the child.

I found out my father was gay through an online chat about 2 months ago, we have this online chat in our country and a lot of people use it for hookups, one night I was there and there was this person using his name, I inquired them about their location and asked a lot of questions, it turned out that person was actually him. He didn't know it was me though, so I left the chat aftet a while and I came back later, he was still there. He started hitting on guys and saying things I don't think are appropriate to put here.How did I feel about it? He has always been a jerk to me and my mother. Always cheating, beating her, manipulating me, disappearing, wasting my mother's money on drugs. And funny enough, he has always been kind of an homophobic, I remember one time being at a local park with him and there were two guys holding hands. He told me they were gonna burn in hell. It has always annoyed me because I hate people like that. It didn't have any impact on me when I found out he was gay, I just thought the things he wrote were kinda funny.He didn't come out, I figured it out myself and it didn't change my life or anything. I'm bisexual myself and I'm happy for him despite him not being the best father.